"gender dysphoria, severe psychological issues."

He's a psychologist!

EDIT: I really did ask my friend who's a psychologist and he said that.

I would say something not as smart like "Get over it because you can't change it" That's something i would say!

well you cant really change your height
uh just be moderately "buff." you dont HAVE to be HUGE like the hulk or anything.
don't look for comfort in food (bad results)
if you don't like being who you are (size feelings etc) you could go to a doctor and see what they can do (pills or something) (maybe antidepressants).

good luck!

You need to get new friends and acquaintances. I'd try meeting people who are not only not superficial, but extremely opposed to the idea of superficiality. For instance, groups that are into "body/fat acceptance", feminism, and anti-consumerism. The fact of the matter is that you'll never find anyone that has not internalized the BS socialization of what the genders ought to look and act like, but you will find people who think that BS is wrong, and actively fight it. Since the role fits badly in your case, it might be good to channel that kind of discomfort into a social movement that actively opposes the kind of gendered expectations that have damaged your life.

Look, if a psychologist told you that you have issues and that "gender dysphorism" is an actual disease that needs to be cured, they're full of it. The fact that people don't take me seriously because I'm generally considered to be "cute" or "hot" bugs the ever-loving heck out of me too, but there are options other than learning to maim yourself emotionally to fit into that role or maim yourself physically to get out of that role.

But sometimes the role doesn't stick. I used to like being treated like a prissy weak girl, and now if anyone approached me like that I'd have to physically restrain myself from hurting them. Am I gender dismorphic? Do I have a disease? Yeah, my disease is that I have personality and identity outside of what society has told me to have. My disease is also that I get angry at least once a day because it's assumed that I'm brainwashed enough to really think that the values assigned to my appearance is everything that everyone needs to know about me.

Actually, I think you're a dead wringer for feminism. I think that the movement to abandon gender roles would fit you to a tee. It sure as hell helped me grow up, address the ways that I hated myself because my the conflict between my personality and my appearance, and realize that the way I feel about myself is not my fault, it's not right, and the things that society has taught be are completely irrational.

I'd look into Radical Feminism. Not that "stripping is so awesome and empowering" faux feminism that is all about buying pink stuff and dressing like a porn star. More of the theoretical academic feminism.

First of all, there are women out there that have masculine features like Jamie Lee Curtis and Sigourney Weaver, but they are still considered attractive women- it's all about perception.

Some bodily changes and features are more important than others. If you were to get feminizing facial surgery to make your face more feminine, that would go a long way towards your desire to pass for female.

Let me explain- even if you were as tall as you are at 6 foot 3 inches, with a few body and facial changes, you could still pass for female.

You have a nice nose and mouth that could definitely pass for female.

There is an issue with the eyebrow ridge in that it looks very masculine- women tend to have a smoother eyebrow ridge that tapers up smoothly from the nasal ridge (where glasses sit on the nose) and the forehead on a woman is more rounded. Unfortunately, only bony surgery will reliably get rid of this feature.

A little neck liposuction and a lift, maybe some cheek implants and you could easily pass for a female in the face.

If you don't like being a bald female and you have enough hair left to do this, there is the option of surgical hair implants to restore your hairline. Otherwise, you'll have to go the wig route. And wigs don't have to look like a wig- there are some very professional wigmakers of synthetic and human hair wigs out there that you literally can't tell they're wigs.

The important bodily features I mentioned earlier are the things that typically women only have, like hips, full butt, and breasts. A corset can pull your waist in without being painful like so many people assume they are.

The hips can be made with a girdle and some foam pads at strategic locations. The hip padding should be placed on the sides starting at the hip bone and go down to about 3 inches above the knees on the outside- you will be surprised how much different you look with womanly hips. The pads are usually only about an inch and a half thick at the thickest part.

You really need to get the hip proportions right- a waist/hip ratio of 7:10 will give you the ideal hourglass figure. The waist should be 70% of what the hip measurement should be.

Measure your waist about 2 inches above your belly button and the hip measurement is about level with the crotch.

To get the best look, wear your corset as tight as you can comfortably and still move and measure your waist. Divide that by 7 and then multiply the result by 10- that should be your hip measurement. For instance, a 32 inch waist divided by 7 equals 4.57 inches. Multiply 4.57 by ten and you have 45.7- the hips should be around 45 inches around to give an hourglass figure.

Make the hip pads large enough and tapered enough to bring your hip measurement to about 40 inches- the butt pads will push the final measurement out to 45 inches. You now look like a very shapely woman from the waist down.

The butt pads are placed just under the crest of the pelvis in the back and extend down to under the butt- typically, an increase of just an inch or two will be enough to give a womanly butt.

You will have to experiment with what size breasts you want, but you would have to have larger breasts to look in proportion to your body. The smallest I would recommend would be a D cup. You want to look like you have breasts, not a hormonal imbalance. Besides, with broad shoulders, you need something larger, to be in proportion with your frame.

Once you have the proportions right with the padding and underwear, then you can measure yourself and order some female clothes from catalogs if you aren't quite ready to just buy them for yourself in a store.

Bra measurement- measure under where your breasts would be- that is the band size. Add an inch for every bust cup size increase and you will have the cup size- a "D" cup is 4 inches larger than the band size, a "DDD/F" is 6 inches larger than the band size. Any thing larger than a "D" cup is usually expressed as a multiple of "D". A "DD" cup is really an "E" cup, a "DDD" is an "F" cup, a "DDDD" is a "G" cup, and so on.

So, here is some good advice on how to look more like a woman.

And remember, even if you were 7 feet tall, if you have a female face, large breasts, and an hourglass figure, nobody would call you a man, no matter how tall you were.

I don't know if you need any work on your voice, but there is a voice training course for transsexuals- just Google "Andrea James" and you should find something on voice training.

And being bald is not a deal-breaker. The actress Zooey Deschanel was completely bald when she did the movie "The HitchHiker's Guide to the Galaxy", and she had on a nearly perfect wig- I only discovered that when I watched the movie on DVD with the commentary track running.

So, cheer up- you can look very much like a woman if you just put a little effo

no V necks, but rather Y shapes like a crew collar shirt with a jacket over zipped half way up but not tight or bright because tight clothes will make it obvious how big you are (I did not say baggy, I said not tight) and bright colors make you appear bigger. horizontal stripes are great too… try looking the websites below

I personally love men who are bigger then me, but that I can do feminine things with, and sometimes dominate. However if you date a girl significantly shorter or smaller then you it will make you seem bigger…

try dating a girl who is looking to be the dominant one in the relationship, I think you'd like that.

As you've already stated a really tall girl is, a lot of times, going to want a taller guy. If she is as tall as you, chances are she will be more self conscious about her height then you are and want a bigger guy to dominate her to make her feel more normal… try finding a girl who is used to/ comfortable with being really tall maybe an athlete like crew, volleyball, or basketball where they will always be around a lot of tall girls and not be self conscious about it.

Maybe a bi-sexual girl would be good for you. Or any girl who just simply doesn't mind that your personality isn't that of the big burly man with which you feel you are expected.

As far as the bald thing… rogaine? hair implants? or just embrace it because I hear it gets expensive… a hat maybe? that hat in your picture looks good on you

So anyways I hope that I helpped.